How Discernment Therapy Works
Navigating uncertainty in a marriage can be overwhelming. Discernment therapy offers clarity when you and your partner are unsure whether to stay together or separate. At Atlas Novus, Wade Bergquist guides couples through this structured process to explore their options thoughtfully.
The therapy typically presents three paths:
- A commitment to couples therapy (restorative option)
- Maintaining the current relationship (status quo)
- Separation or divorce (legal option)
This focused approach helps couples evaluate their choices and make an informed, intentional decision. The goal is not to push for a specific outcome, but to give both partners clarity about their future.
Discernment counseling involves 1 to 5 sessions, starting with a 2-hour opening session followed by 1.5-hour follow-ups. Both partners attend, alternating between joint and individual sessions. Wade provides a safe, confidential space to explore your relationship’s dynamics and guide you toward a deeper understanding.
Whether you choose to work on your marriage or part ways, discernment therapy offers the clarity and closure you need. Even if separation is the outcome, the process provides valuable insights for both partners’ future.
If you’re uncertain about your marriage, Wade can help you navigate this challenging decision with care and respect.